Which sounds like another way of saying “emotional baggage.”  Since Dr. Helen’s post yesterday on Nice Guys garnered hardly any interest from bloggers such as Ace, I passed it along to her, just to stir the pot a bit. There is one thing that I thought the writer could have right, though.  Some guys might get rejected because of their “short-comings.”ÂÂ
That was an interesting post, Dr Helen’s ‘What happened to all the nice guys?’ The answer, of course, is obvious…they don’t get the girl(s). That they want. Or think they want. At least not when the hormones are raging. She’ll look for a higher level of hormones than the nice guys can put out. There’s anecdotal evidence strewn throughout popular culture…
If ‘the girl’ makes a choice for a well-lined nest, without care for her own hormones?
I think the edgy guys will always get the girls…first. Later, when it’s more nest-building, the nice guys will have a chance.
“Dating Toxins”?
Shit. I thought this was a post about groupies…
Yup. Yup. Yup.
“Later, when it’s more nest-building, the nice guys will have a chance.”
Doubt it.
As my friend once wrote (in a song) ;
“Treat a whore like a lady, she’ll slap your face.
Treat a lady like a whore, you’re forever in her good grace”.
I hate to sound like a Neanderthal, but the minute I started treating my girlfriends nicely, they were gone like a cool breeze. Or else they maxed out my Visa and then went home with the bartender…
I can’t explain it, and I don’t understand it, but that’s the way it works.
Bad boys rule…
Lost Dog write, ” I can’t explain it, and I don’t understand it, but that’s the way it works. Bad boys rule…”
The explanation: women desire contradictions, and “bad boys” don’t let them get away with that stupid shit. They’re not really bad boys, they just don’t accept responsibility for solving the modern woman’s impossible desires.
The modern woman harbors all manner of contradictory desires. She lives in a state of perpetual dissatisfaction. By satisfying one desire, she is logically bound to leave the other unsatisfied.
Common female contradictions:
“I want equality, so treat me special just because I’m a woman.”
“I want an assertive guy, who always does what I want.”
“I want a guy who cares about my needs, but I don’t want to tell him what they are.”
“A guy should KNOW what I want without me telling him, but he’d better not presume to know what I want.”
“He makes me happy, but no man can make me happy.”
“When I’m paying I want equality, when he’s paying I want the ‘gentleman’ to pay for it all.”
“I like intelligent guys, who always agree with me.”
“He shouldn’t be a door mat, and he should always have a care MY needs.”
“I don’t need a man, and I want a man who makes me feel needed.”
(and on, and on, and on…)
Let women figure out their own shit. Have lots of sex with them in the meantime.
If I was writing a relationship book for men here would be the thesis: don’t have them.
Feminism. Feminism. Feminism.
You cannot have healthy, sane, normal relations between men and women so long as something that isn’t natural (Feminism) permeates and infects the minds of Western Women & every aspect of Western Civilization (misandric media, government, workplace, education, etc). If you want sane relations between men and women, you must eliminate the feminist disease and return to relations as nature intended … not as some social engineering experiment like we currently have. As we can see, this is easier said than done. And women, enjoying all of the benefits and failing to see the consequences (as usual), have no interest in eradicating Feminism. It appears as though we must patiently wait for nature to do so. Nature doesn’t care if you legislate equality that doesn’t naturally exist.
All of this “nice guy” nonsense demonstrates that the traditional evolution of the Patriarchy occurred for a reason. Precisely to avoid all of this BS! Now, we see what happens as we devolve from a patriarchy towards a Feminist/Socialist nihilistic godless, or should I say goddess, matriarchy. Look at the behavior of matriarchies throughout nature … the behavior matches precisely what’s going on in Western UnCilvilization these days.
Let women behave without controls on their behavior and you get generation after generation of garbage. Every civilization throughout history rose to greatness when it controlled the behavior of women and fell when it failed to do so.
The wisest choice for men these days is to opt out. To not play the western women feminist bullsh*t game. Keep your assets. Keep your sanity. Find a non-feminist woman from another country and raise your family in her country. Let the Players & the Bad Boys eat from the infected plate of diseased garbage known as Western Women. Forget about Shit American Women.
Peace & Happiness is to be found elsewhere. Otherwise, IMBRA wouldn’t exist!
Cheers