{"id":7641,"date":"2006-11-17T10:04:00","date_gmt":"2006-11-17T17:04:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/proteinwisdom.com\/?p=7641"},"modified":"2006-11-17T10:04:00","modified_gmt":"2006-11-17T17:04:00","slug":"kill-you-kill-me-craigc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/proteinwisdom.com\/?p=7641","title":{"rendered":"Kill You, Kill Me (CraigC)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The seeming epidemic of violence in the workplace struck home today.&nbsp; There was a <a href=\"http:\/\/wjz.com\/topstories\/local_story_320140619.html\" title=\"murder-suicide\">murder-suicide<\/a> at the Baltimore office of my wife&#8217;s company.&nbsp; The murder victim was a manager who was killed by one of his employees, who then turned the gun on himself.&nbsp;  I&#8217;m not going to use any names here, so this might get kind of convoluted.&nbsp; I apologize for any confusion.&nbsp; The victim was someone with whom my wife worked closely on a number of projects.&nbsp; In fact, Donna was at the New Jersey office last week, and had meetings in which he participated.&nbsp; She was in the San Diego office yesterday working on some issues with another of his employees who had been sent out to help deal with them.&nbsp; She called him at his office in Baltimore, and got an automated message saying that he would be out of the office until the 16th.&nbsp; Later in the morning, someone called with the news that he had been shot, and his (former?) employee packed hurriedly and rushed home.&nbsp; Donna is quite shaken, as you might imagine.\n<\/p>\n<p>\n<b>Update:<\/b>  I&#8217;ve added my comment from below:\n<\/p>\n<p>\nThose are all worthwhile comments, but not exactly what I\u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00e2\u201e\u00a2m talking about.&nbsp; The people you describe are certainly part of the problem, but what scares me aren\u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00e2\u201e\u00a2t the confused, angry, bitter types, but the true sociopaths. I\u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00e2\u201e\u00a2m not saying that the guy who killed his boss wasn\u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00e2\u201e\u00a2t one of those types you describe, in fact, he probably was.\n<\/p>\n<p>\nThe two incidents I described were only connected in a tangential way.&nbsp; The first sort of led me into thinking about the second.&nbsp; The true sociopath has no conscience.&nbsp; Human life means nothing to him. He has no connection to anything outside himself.&nbsp; And he has no connection to himself either, because there\u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00e2\u201e\u00a2s nothing there.&nbsp; I suppose it may be a case of living in the information age, but it sure seems like there are more of them these days.\n<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t really have anything profound to say about this, although something struck me today while I was at work.&nbsp; I work in retail management for a large department store chain, and I noticed a couple of older teenagers in the mall who looked like they were straight out of The Matrix, or something.&nbsp; One of them was wearing a cowl-like, sort of Druidian hood that came to a point in the back.&nbsp; The front of it was perched right in the middle of his head.&nbsp; And they had the walk.&nbsp; You know the walk.&nbsp; Like James Dean, except that you got the impression that they&#8217;d think nothing of killing you just for the hell of it.&nbsp; I thought to myself, they&#8217;re not real people.&nbsp; They think they&#8217;re in a movie.\n<\/p>\n<p>\nI&#8217;m afraid that we&#8217;ve raised a couple of generations that have way too many sociopaths in them.&nbsp; People who have no connection to morals as they used to be taught, no connection to themselves. No conscience.&nbsp; No conception of other people whose lives are meaningful.&nbsp; I can&#8217;t imagine, no matter the situation, no matter the perceived injustice, no matter how desperate I was, killing another human being and then killing myself.&nbsp; In fact, my wife gets pissed at me because I won&#8217;t kill spiders.&nbsp; I actually pick them up and put them outside.&nbsp; There, now you know my secret.&nbsp; I&#8217;m really just an old softie.&nbsp; But, I digress.&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\nWhere was I before I so rudely interrupted myself?&nbsp; I know everyone always thinks everything in their own time is going to hell in a handbasket.&nbsp; I&#8217;m sure the sociopaths won&#8217;t start outnumbering the rest of us.&nbsp; But sometimes I worry.&nbsp; And I damn sure look behind me.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The seeming epidemic of violence in the workplace struck home today.&nbsp; There was a murder-suicide at the Baltimore office of my wife&#8217;s company.&nbsp; The murder victim was a manager who was killed by one of his employees, who then turned the gun on himself.&nbsp; I&#8217;m not going to use any names here, so this might get kind of convoluted.&nbsp; I apologize for any confusion.&nbsp; The victim was someone with whom<\/p>\n<div class=\"belowpost\"><a class=\"btnmore\" href=\"https:\/\/proteinwisdom.com\/?p=7641\">Read More<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":590,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7641","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/proteinwisdom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7641","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/proteinwisdom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/proteinwisdom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/proteinwisdom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/590"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/proteinwisdom.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7641"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/proteinwisdom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7641\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/proteinwisdom.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7641"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/proteinwisdom.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7641"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/proteinwisdom.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7641"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}