Of course, it’s all the fault of the hatey-hatey cismale, heteronormative boys who decide they just don’t want to get involved with a “transgender girl” who is a fully-intact male.
Appearing in a new BBC Three documentary, Young, Trans and Looking for Love, they let viewers see a glimpse of their lives as they struggle to find love.
The doc shows the moment Claire, from Virginia, meets a guy that she likes, only to be rejected by him as soon as he finds out she was born a boy. […]
The boys, who were originally attracted to Claire, did not call after finding out that she is trans.
“That’s it, silence,” says Claire. “Like nothing from them again.”
Claire has also begun making social media diaries of her transition, sharing her experiences with transgender teens across the world.
Hoping on finding a boyfriend, she reveals that she doesn’t like telling people the truth and is desperate for an operation.
She says: “In a lot of ways, I don’t like telling a guy. Once I tell him all respect goes out of the window.
“Straight guys just can’t get over you having the male parts.
“Once I’ve had or get the surgery, I think it will change a lot for me because right now if I meet a straight guy and he doesn’t know – we can’t get physical if I don’t tell him.
“And then if he finds out, things just get so complicated, I can’t even begin to explain.”
“Claire” is being set up for failure by certain political groups eager to promulgate the falsehood that gender is whatever you choose. They prey on the psychologically damaged, offering them salvation through surgery, but it never really solves the issue because men and women are different.
If “Claire” is sexually oriented towards men, he should be looking to date other gays — boys who will not reject him for having male parts. What cruelty to inflict on Claire that somehow it is a straight man’s obligation to become romantically and sexually involved with Claire by going along with the delusion he is a woman.
I do not feel any anger towards Claire. I feel a great deal of sympathy because he has been used so shabbily and studies show that even when he has all his male genitalia removed, it will not solve his psychological issues. He is never going to fulfill his ‘wish’ to be a woman.
This will not end well.
Claire’s enablers should be tarred and feathered.
He is never going to fulfill his ‘wish’ to be a woman.
Not with current medical technology at least.
Since we don’t have a Beta Colony from Bujold’s Vorkosigan saga. Though I suspect some of these people will never be happy with their bodies even if the medical tech allowing a functional transformation (as opposed to the cosmetic mutilations of today) were available.
Back in the ’80s there was an acquaintance of a friend who called himself “Jessica.” If you didn’t know (I was forewarned) you wouldn’t know “she” was a he.
At one point I heard that he was dating a guy who didn’t know.
I suppose if the objective was to not die of AIDS…
We had a “gal” in a legal department where I worked at one time who had to avoid overtime and business trips where “her” 5 o’clock shadow might start showing up as well as other threats to the fantasy.
Nice and funny gal, like she had a man’s sense of humor.
It never goes well when you indulge the mentally ill rather than getting them help.