…Just might be the absolute gayest bit of academic bullshit I’ve heard in quite some time.
Look: You’re here, you’re queer, and by definition, you engage in sexual relations with members of the same sex, making you homo- rather than hetero- sexual. That is an accurate descriptor.
I don’t give a flip into whose slot you drop your mail. Honestly. And if your state votes to allow you to wed, I’m cool with that, so long as you accept that my state has other opinions about what constitutes a valid “marriage,” and that we, too, are entitled to vote on our own state’s policies.
But what I won’t put up with is your insistence that I celebrate the you that you and you alone claim jurisdiction over, using your preferred terms and your approved belief sets as a barometer for my relative level of hateyness or phobia.
I don’t care what you do (or don’t do) with dicks. Just stop acting like one, and we’ll all be happier that way.